Goldsboro, NC – Tanna Mary Wilder, age 80, passed away peacefully under the care of hospice on Friday December 13, 2024. Born in Watertown, NY to James A. Wilder and Eba Brown Wilder on October 4, 1944. Tanna lived a full life surrounded by family and friends. She graduated with a nursing degree from West Jefferson Community College, Watertown, NY, & went on to be head psychiatric nurse in Virginia.

She is predeceased by her sons Jeffery M. and Andy S. Flitcroft, & her brother Michael C. Wilder. A marriage to Michael H. Flitcroft ended in divorce.

Tanna is survived by her son Craig A. (Christine) Flitcroft, of Henderson, NY, a brother Patrick A. Wilder, of Watertown NY, "her half siblings Kathleen LaClair of Clayton, NY; Kevin J Wilder (P Elaine) and Carol F Kines (Jeffery) of Ocala, FL; Mark F Wilder (Marlyne) of Fairview Heights, IL"; and long-time partner W. Ronald Parker, his sons Jason, Nicholas, Jon & his 5 grandchildren.

Tanna was the proud nana of Craig's children Holly, Abbey & Thomas Flitcroft and Andy's children, Alyssa, Cloe & Caden Flitcroft, all of whom brought her tremendous joy & pride. Also, many aunts, uncles, nephews, cousins, and friends.

Tanna will be remembered for her unwavering love for her family, kindness & bright spirit. Per Tanna's wishes, there will be no funeral or calling hours. Arrangements at with Parrish Funeral Home in Selma, NC.